Private Guidance for life after awakening
Whether you need to stabilize or you're ready to go deeper, this work meets you where you are and moves with you.
30 min · Online · Free · No pressure
You might recognize yourself here
You're trying to work, parent, and show up while your whole system is reorganizing underneath you.
Your nervous system is dysregulated. Energy spikes, crashes, sensitivity, that makes normal life feel overwhelming.
Relationships are harder than before. More triggers, less patience and no way to explain what’s happening to the people around you.
You sense there's something deeper available, but you keep hitting the same walls. The shift happened, and now you're stuck between the old life and something you can't quite reach yet.
The insight is there, but old patterns keep running. Knowing the truth and living from it are turning out to be two very different things.
You've tried other support, but therapists don't get it. Teachers point to the truth but don't help you live from it. And you're done trying to figure this out alone.
Something essential hasn't fully resolved and you're ready to go directly into it
If this is you this work was built for exactly this.
This process is not for everyone.
It's not for people who are brand new to the spiritual path, looking for motivation or mindset coaching, or want a structured program to follow step by step.
It's for people who've already had a genuine shift and need honest, skilled support, whether that means stabilizing what's been shaken loose or going directly into what hasn't been fully seen yet.
The 4-Month Private Guidance Process
Eight 1-on-1 sessions over four months, every two weeks. Online, in English or Dutch.
Everything is built around your specific situation. For some people that means stabilizing the nervous system and learning to function again. For others it means going directly into the conditioning, identity structures, or sticking points that are keeping realization from deepening. For most, it's both.
What’s included:
8 private sessions over 4 months (every two weeks)
WhatsApp (or signal) support between sessions
Direct work with your nervous system, conditioning, and integration
Guidance for navigating work, family, and relationships while the process unfolds
Support for deepening into nonduality, no-self, or whatever your process is moving toward
Honest, direct presence. No bypassing. No spiritual clichés.
€2.400 · 4 months · Full support
We explore what's happening for you before anything else. No commitment required.
What happens in a session
We directly meet what’s here
A sensation, a belief, a pattern, a place where you're stuck. Not analyzed, but met directly.
We work with it until something actually shifts, using inquiry, somatic awareness, or whatever the moment asks for.
Your system learns to hold more
Whether that means calming a nervous system that's in overdrive, or opening into what's been avoided, the work is the same: building the capacity to be with what's real without bracing against it.
The gap between insight and life closes.
As integration deepens, you stop living in two worlds. Choices become clearer. Relationships get simpler.
The truth you've seen stops being something you carry and starts being something you live from.
What Clients Actually Say
"Kees is the best coach and guide I have worked with. His sessions have changed my life, and I would recommend him to anyone."
— James
"You can really tell that he has walked this path himself. An intuitive coach who asks the right questions at the right moments. He helps me grow much faster."
— Mark
"Kees has exactly the right balance between profundity and down-to-earthness. His attitude is personal, warm and light. He gave me the push in the right direction."
— Ruben
"Whatever concerns me at the moment, Kees has an excellent sense of what lies beneath it. Now I act from a place of peace and trust in myself instead of reacting to my environment."
— Floris
Ongoing support
For people who have done the initial work and want consistent, grounded support as the process continues to unfold.
One session per month plus WhatsApp support. €300/month · Minimum 6 months
Not sure what fits? We figure that out together in the free conversation.
The free conversation
is where it starts
We talk about where you are, what’s moving, and whether this work makes sense for your situation.
I'll be honest with you about whether I think I can help, and what I'd actually suggest as a next step.
Confidential · 30 min · Free ·
English or Dutch